HOW CAN I EARN MY CAT'S LOVE?

 This includes things to scratch, things to climb, quiet areas for retreating when he feels overwhelmed, and soft places to snuggle down.

7. Play with Your Cat a Lot

You can form a bond with your cat by playing with her. Try games that cater to her instincts, like getting her to chase a feather wand or using a red laser toy for her to pounce and chase. Give her a treat after each play session, so she has "prey" to eat. Clicker training is another type of "play" that really engages your cat's mind.

Sometimes a cat may scratch or hiss at you. In those situations, you may find yourself wondering, "How do I get my cat to like me when she seems to hate me?" Rest assured, your cat doesn't hate you. Often, a cat acts out because she has too much energy or feels intimidated. Extra play sessions that wear her out can help.

8. Create Traditions and Rituals

Your cat will develop a deeper sense of his place in this world when you have daily traditions. This is a great way to remind your cat the two of you are connected and part of a pack. Try giving your cat smells of the outdoors by cracking open a window at the same time every morning, or play a game just before bedtime. Take your cat to his cat-run at sundown, or keep your cat in a room with you for an hour while you work, away from other pets and noises. Whatever your tradition is, be consistent and develop a schedule your cat can learn and anticipate.

Earning a cat's love is all about nurturing the bond between the two of you. Pay attention to your cat's language, pet him where he likes to be petted, and develop special rituals that cater to his e-meow-tional health. Remember, the more quality time you spend with your cat, the deeper your bond will grow.