HorseWise: Worse Before Better

Q    I sent my Quarter Horse gelding to a trainer two weeks ago and want to ask your advice about a concern I have. My gelding is extremely quiet almost lazy and never spooks at things. I have ridden him on the trails and can lead my young nephew around on him and even ride him bareback with just a halter and lead. I sent him for training to get some finishing neck reining collection lead changes to be able to show him this season.
The trainer reports having some attitude problems with my horse such as kicking out at his leg and sulling up to the point of rearing a bit. Should I take my horse home before it gets worse? I realise that I will lose my months training money but hes never done this kind of thing with me.

A   I can understand your concern about your horse but before you sever ties with your trainer you might want to consider some things. First Im assuming you did some homework before sending your gelding away. Does this trainer have the reputation of producing happy welleducated horses not just what hes told you but a track record over the years to back it up? Does he have a clientele of loyal satisfied horse owners? Is his character honest and straightforward? If so it takes backbone to tell a customer the truth when things arent going well instead of tickling her ears with what she wants to hear. Whether its my doctor accountant or childs music teacher I respect people who will give it to me straight dont you?
From a trainers point of view I can tell you that during the education process the horse often gets worse before he gets better. I regularly see the scenario of a home raised