Teaching Children to Ride
While children of any age can sit on a pony and be led about, it is generally not beneficial to attempt to teach them to ride until they are five or six years old. At this age, children have had time for their limbs to develop, can understand instructions and have developed a good level of mental focus.
It is extremely important to match the child to the pony. All beginners should ride a kind lesson pony that does not exhibit vices, is safe and nicely forward, and is not stubborn or pushy. Yes, a pony like that can be hard to find!
At the start, the rider should be taught individually and led at walk and then trot. This will require the aid of a helper who is experienced with horses. It is almost impossible to properly teach someone to ride when you are leading the pony. It is extremely important that the beginner not be over-faced, especially if they are timid. All mounted work should be done in proper attire in boots with small heels, comfortable pants, and a correctly-fitted riding helmet which must be worn at all times. The saddle should be fitted with appropriately-sized safety stirrups.